Discover your Love Language

Discover your Love Language

Take the 5 Love Languages® official assessment to discover your love language and begin improving your relationships.

Your love language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect to others.

Join more than 15 million people who have already improved their relationships by discovering your love language.

Learn Your Love Language
[The 5 Love Languages] changed my life. It changed my marriage.
There's such simplicity in its message, but I feel like it's so powerful.

- Kelly Hurliman, Wardrobe stylist to Oprah Winfrey
[The 5 Love Languages] changed my life.
It changed my marriage. There's such
simplicity in its message, but I feel
like it's so powerful.

- Kelly Hurliman
Wardrobe stylist to Oprah Winfrey

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This language uses words to affirm other people.

For these people, actions speak louder than words.

For some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift.

This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention.

To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.


The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts®


The 5 Love Languages:

The Secret to Love that Lasts®


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With over 11 MILLION COPIES SOLD, The 5 Love Languages® has transformed countless relationships. Its ideas are simple and conveyed with clarity and humor, making this book as practical as it is personable. You'll be inspired by real life stories and encouraged by Gary Chapman's commonsense approach.

Available in paperback, hardcover, e-book, and audiobook formats.

See examples of the 5 Love Languages in this inspirational video

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A Wife is a Partner

The loving husband views his wife as a partner. A wife is not a trophy to be won in courtship and then placed on the wall for all to observe along with our ten-point buck. She is a living person with whom to have a relationship. She is not a person to be dominated and controlled to satisfy our own desires. She is a person to be known and from whom we can learn. The idea of the wife as partner is as old as human literature. In the Genesis account of creation, the woman was created from the rib of man. It is a graphic description of her role as partner. The man and his wife were instructed to subdue the earth and to rule over the fish of the sea, the birds of the air and other living creatures. The man was not instructed to subdue his wife. He was told to become “one flesh” with her. We are different, but these differences were designed by God so that we could complement each other. The husband who views his wife as an partner has taken the first step toward becoming a loving leader in him marriage.

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The old song reminds us that love and marriage always go together, but what happens if you add a career to the equation? Is it possible to start both a marriage and career simultaneously and have them flourish?

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