Discover your Love Language

Discover your Love Language

Take the 5 Love Languages® official assessment to discover your love language and begin improving your relationships.

Your love language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect to others.

Join more than 15 million people who have already improved their relationships by discovering your love language.

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[The 5 Love Languages] changed my life. It changed my marriage.
There's such simplicity in its message, but I feel like it's so powerful.

- Kelly Hurliman, Wardrobe stylist to Oprah Winfrey
[The 5 Love Languages] changed my life.
It changed my marriage. There's such
simplicity in its message, but I feel
like it's so powerful.

- Kelly Hurliman
Wardrobe stylist to Oprah Winfrey

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This language uses words to affirm other people.

For these people, actions speak louder than words.

For some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift.

This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention.

To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch.

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts®

The 5 Love Languages:

The Secret to Love that Lasts®

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With over 11 MILLION COPIES SOLD, The 5 Love Languages® has transformed countless relationships. Its ideas are simple and conveyed with clarity and humor, making this book as practical as it is personable. You'll be inspired by real life stories and encouraged by Gary Chapman's commonsense approach.

Available in paperback, hardcover, e-book, and audiobook formats.

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Forgiving Like God Forgives

Gary, Jesus said that we are to forgive 70 X 7. Does that mean with an apology or without an apology? My wife never apologizes and I’m having a hard time dealing with the hurt.

Answer: We are to forgive others as God forgives us. So, how does God forgive us? The Scriptures say, “If we confess our sins, God is faithful and just to forgive our sins.” If we don’t confess, the Scriptures indicate that God will discipline us – Hebrews 12. Jesus gave us clear instructions in Luke 17: 3 “If your brother (or wife) sins against you, confront him or her. If they repent forgive them.” In Matthew 18, Jesus said we should make more than one attempt at confronting them. Eventually, if they don’t repent, we are to treat them as a pagan. How do we treat pagans? We pray for them; we love them; we return good for evil. It is unconditional love that often touches the heart of the offender. You will need God’s help to follow God’s plan, but it is the most powerful thing you can do when someone refuses to apologize.

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How to Keep Your Marriage Together When Life is Falling Apart

Clarissa Sidhom

My husband and I just celebrated 5 years of marriage—and when I look back, I smile, remembering lots of laughter, sweet conversations, the birth of our first baby, and even the bliss of curling up on the couch and watching a stupid movie far too late on a Friday night.

But I also remember what I’d sometimes rather forget.

These last 5 years have contained more life changes than some people I know have gone through in their entire lives. New jobs, new careers even, new cities, new health problems, cancer scares- the list goes on.

Whenever life is falling apart (or even just changing), your marriage reaches a subconscious fork in the road. It’s not always as black and white as getting divorced or staying together

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