How To Book List

How-To Book

Acts of Service

Help someone get a step closer to realizing a dream (e.g., gift a "How-To" book, sign them up for a course, etc.). Here is a list of 101 ways to learn a new skill!

Cooking Class

Cooking Class

Physical Touch

Quality Time

If you and your partner are feeling ambitious, try taking a cooking class together. Side by side, you are sure to give and receive many touches. Make it a point to be close and have fun. If you would like to find a class near you, try this website (click Cooking, then Couples Cooking). Bon appétit!

Unplug Box

Unplug Box

Quality Time

This Unplug Box makes a great gift for those who love Quality Time with others.

Book Convoscouple

101 Conversation Starters for Couples

With 101 probing questions, couples will find their relationship enhanced, their intimacy deepened, and their romance ignited. 101 Conversation Starters for Couples is the perfect companion to the bestselling book, The 5 Love Languages®. It also makes an excellent Valentines Day, wedding, and anniversary gift. It helps you and your spouse get the conversation flowing.

Dance Lesson

Dance Lessons

Physical Touch

Dancing lessons can be a particularly meaningful gift for a loved one with the love language of Physical Touch. There are many styles to choose from—pick one and surprise your partner.

Sticky Note Ball

Sticky Memo Ball

Physical Touch

Consider giving a sticky memo ball to your loved one. After opening, take turns writing your favorite expressions of touches on each sticky note. Then play a game—rolling the memo ball and doing whatever suggestion lands on top. Peel that one and add another. Play until your love tanks are full.

Date Night Talks

TableTopic

Acts of Service

Sometimes after a long day, simple conversation can even be challenging. Take the heavy lifting out of it and get some TableTopic cards that fit your fancy and get everyone talking.

Date Night

Date at Home

Acts of Service

Arrange to have a friend or family member watch the kids overnight and then plan all the details for an exquisite evening of dinner, along with some enjoyable and relaxing activities—click for ideas.

Cabin

Cabin Ornament

Quality Time

A getaway to a secluded cabin could be a nice break. Make plans and present your special someone with a cabin-related, Christmas ornament.

Now And Later

Now and Laters

Physical Touch

Get a little physical with your spouse playing this sweet game. Pick up a few packs of individually wrapped Now and Laters®. Stash them around the house for your spouse to find. Instruct them that every time they find one to let you know. When they do, they get a 60-second hug or kiss now AND 60 seconds toward a massage or other agreed upon activity later when they “cash in” their candy.

Lovesong

Love Song Couples Getaway

Quality Time

Give the gift of relaxation in an exotic destination. The Love Song Couples Getaway is a fun and memorable experience for couples who want to grow closer. Dr. Chapman would love to meet you in Kauai in 2021.

Book 52dates

52 Uncommon Dates

52 Uncommon Dates is more than a book . . . it’s an experience! Each date will set the scene for you and walk you through how to make it happen. Finish strong with questions that help keep conversation alive, incorporate prayer in ways that are natural and relevant to real life, and learn ways to practically speak each other’s love language along the way. Ignite prayerful and playful connections in ways that deepen the relational, physical, emotional, and spiritual aspects of your relationship—one date at a time.