Notes Of Love

Affirmation Jar

Words of Affirmation

Write a list of genuine, specific compliments or affirmations on individual scraps of paper and put them in a jar, so they can be opened and read whenever your loved one needs a pick-me-up. (Also, the only cost is some time and a container!)

Honey Do Bank

Honey-Do Bank

Acts of Service

Acts of Service got you stumped? Designate a "Honey-Do" Bank in your home. Instruct your spouse to drop in Acts of Service suggestions as they come to mind and then periodically pull one out and do what it says. Repeat often to keep your spouse's love tank full and chores accomplished.

Date Night Talks

TableTopic

Acts of Service

Sometimes after a long day, simple conversation can even be challenging. Take the heavy lifting out of it and get some TableTopic cards that fit your fancy and get everyone talking.

Coupons

Coupons

Physical Touch

Create a few appropriate “Physical Touch” coupons for your loved ones and offer for them to use the coupons at their leisure. Be creative and remember to consider their particular love language dialects . . . not everyone likes to be touched the same way. If you don’t have a design program on your phone or computer, Canva has a “tickets” template that will get you started.

Marriagecarol

Book

Physical Touch

Does your spouse work from home? Why not grab a book and join him or her on the couch while he or she is working on their laptop? This shows that you’re choosing to be with them, even in the mundane. This book is "couple-perfect" for the holidays.

Lovesong

Love Song Couples Getaway

Quality Time

Give the gift of relaxation in an exotic destination. The Love Song Couples Getaway is a fun and memorable experience for couples who want to grow closer. Dr. Chapman would love to meet you in Kauai in 2021.

Blanket

Personalized Blanket

Physical Touch

Who wouldn't want a personalized throw blanket for snuggling on the couch together?

Photo Book

Picture Book

Words of Affirmation

Take your favorite memories and pictures and create a picture book! It's a fun way to recapture the moments and relive the memories.

Subscription

Subscription-Based Gift

Receiving Gifts

A subscription-based gift, even if it's small, can show love for months on end. Here are some fun ones to consider.

Candy Buffet

Candy Buffet

Acts of Service

Set up a small candy buffet for your kids, spouse, or friends the next time you host a get-together. Dress up as a classy server (white gloves and all), and serve them at a special time during the evening.