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Saturday, May 8
Does brokenness disqualify you from being a good mom? On our Mother’s Day edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Dr. Juli Slattery talks about authentic motherhood. Many moms feel inadequate and strive for perfection in their role as a mother. If you’re overwhelmed, don’t miss a conversation about “authentic motherhood” on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, May 1
Take a guided tour of the life lessons learned and love languages discovered on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. We go up close and personal with this trusted NY Times bestselling author. Hear of his humble beginnings in a North Carolina mill town, the girl who broke his heart and the bully who challenged his faith. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 24
Dr. Gary Chapman is known for the 5 Love Languages. He loves connecting couples and singles with the love of God. And he’s not afraid to tackle the real life struggles you’re facing. On this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, questions from you about marriage difficulties, family conflict and a lot more. You might hear an answer to something you’re going through—join the conversation today on the April edition of Dear Gary. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 17
If you’ve ever wondered what it would be like to journey with persecuted brothers and sisters, don’t miss this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. For more than 20 years, host of The Voice of the Martyrs Radio, Todd Nettleton has traveled the world interviewing hundreds of Christians who've been persecuted. “When Faith is Forbidden.” Hear the stories he uncovered. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 10
If you like a good love story, don’t miss this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. You’ll hear the untold love story of Charles and Susie Spurgeon. Ray Rhodes will take us on a remarkable journey to the 1800s to discover how the bond of this renowned couple helped fuel their lifelong service to God. How did they handle the pressure, the illnesses, and the loneliness? Find out today on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 3
The Bible is filled with real people who had real problems and pain. Today, author and speaker Dan Darling helps us take a fresh look at the people who populate the story of Passion Week. The religious leaders, the political leaders, the disciples, the betrayer. You might see yourself in the characters of Easter. Don’t miss this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 27
The questions are in, your messages have been received, and it’s time for answers on today's edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Each month the New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages takes questions and comments from his listener line. He’ll talk with singles about dating and address the sex-less marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 20
Wouldn’t you love it if you had a special button you could push that would activate a happier life? On this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear about “the joy switch” that God has provided. Chris Coursey (CORE see) says your brain has a secret circuit that affects all of your relationships. How do you find it and flip the power on? Find out on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 13
For many, the term “midlife” is synonymous with “crisis.” But our guest on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, says it doesn’t have to be that way. Yes, midlife is challenging. But the demands of this season can force us to adjust, adapt and grow deeper in the marriage relationship. How do you take advantage of midlife opportunities? Find out today on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 6
If abortion became illegal, would the church be ready to respond? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Amy Ford wants to help you discover your place in the pro-life movement. Her dream is to create the kind of world where every woman with an unplanned pregnancy will feel empowered to choose life. Don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 27
Author and director of Family Life Blended, Ron Deal wants to help you build love together in your blended family. On today's program, Ron talks about the unique challenges step-families encounter. You need more than just good intentions to overcome them. How do you build trust and become one? Don’t miss the encouragement for blended families on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 20
Many people talk about being “called” into ministry, but today on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear Dave’s story. He was called from being a pastor back into his family’s gear shop. It was something he never wanted to do, but the transition became a spiritually transformative season of his life. If you’re struggling with finding purpose in your work, don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 13
Is the trust in your marriage being built or being broken? On this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Jill and Mark Savage detail the devastation of adultery. It was a painful, difficult time in their marriage. But there was repentance and forgiveness. Then came the hard work of rebuilding trust. What is that process like? Find out on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 6
It’s one of the hardest things to do, but also one of the most rewarding. On this edition Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll learn about the benefits of “waiting well.” We spend a lot of time doing things efficiently and making sure we get our to-do list completed. What do we lose when we fail to wait? Hear encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 30
What would you say to someone whose spouse has declared, “I’ve fallen out of love?” What would you say to someone whose spouse has admitted cheating and wants forgiveness? These are the types of questions Dr. Gary Chapman answers on his monthly edition of “Dear Gary.” Hear new questions for the New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages on this edition Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 23
If the prospect of sharing your faith with someone makes you nervous, you have to hear this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Husband and wife duo, Heather and Ashley Holleman have discovered a way to turn ordinary interactions with family, neighbors, and coworkers into an invitation to adventure with God. They call this an opportunity to live “sent.” See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 16
For most of us, grumbling comes a lot easier than gratitude. But this week, you’ll hear about the heart-altering power of thanksgiving in all situations. Author and pastor Dustin Crowe says there are tangible and quantifiable results of living a life of gratitude. Don’t miss the encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 9
If you’ve been given the diagnosis of cancer, or if someone you care about has, don’t miss this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Author and speaker Deborah Barr says cancer is a hard, reluctant journey through rugged, unfamiliar terrain. But you can find the strength you need if you’ll allow God to join you on this trail. Whether a patient or a caregiver, you’ll be encouraged. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 2
The world has been upended by uncertainty, financial upheaval, a contentious election, racial division and a pandemic, as well. Today, Dannah Gresh reminds us of the message of an Old Testament prophet named Habakkuk. If you’re asking, “Where is God in all this? Is he in control?” Don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 26
The questions are in, your messages have been received, and it’s time for answers. Each month the New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages takes questions and comments from his listener line. And this week, it’s our final broadcast of 2020 and some great questions about marriage struggles, the love languages and more. Don’t miss todays December Dear Gary broadcast on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 19
There’s nothing that warms the heart like great Christmas hymns. And on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear the stories behind some of those unforgettable songs. David and Barbara Leeman will take us on a guided tour of Christmas music that has stood the test of time. Don’t miss the inspiration, comfort and joy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 12
If you’re in a spiritually mismatched marriage, don’t miss this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Lynn Donovan prayed for the “walled-off heart” of her spouse for years. Then she read the biblical story of the walls of Jericho that came tumbling down. If your heart yearns for your spouse to come alive spiritually, don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 5
If you’re a mom looking for the right rules to help guide you, this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman is for you! Author and speaker Maggie Combs says many moms are living under the pressure of misguided rules that lead to bondage, not freedom. Hear the liberating “gospel truth” about your role as a mother. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 28
You’ve heard that when you get to the end of your rope you need to a tie a knot and hang on, right? Well, if that’s you, tune in to the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. On our November “Dear Gary” broadcast, you’ll hear answers to some deep marriage and family struggles, and words of hope from the author of the NY Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 21
Are your thoughts holding you captive? Do you feel you’ll never be good enough, that others have a better life? Then hear Jennie Allen’s story on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Jennie knows what it’s like to swirl in a spiral of destructive thoughts, but she also knows you don’t have to stay stuck in toxic thinking patterns. Don’t miss the encouragement to “get out of your head"! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 14
Every person on the planet has longings inside placed there by God. But many never discover what they truly desire. So says author and speaker York Moore. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, he’ll talk about his own search for meaning and where that search led. He believes each person needs to be seen, known and loved. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 7
Technology has helped children stay in school during the pandemic. But what are the hidden costs of so much screen time? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and speaker Arlene Pellicane will help parents and grandparents who are struggling with this topic. What are the skills every child needs in a tech-driven world? Hear a practical program on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 31
You never know what you’re going to hear when Dr. Gary Chapman takes phone calls from listeners. It could be a marriage struggle, a disagreement about a previous answer he’s given, or a parenting question. He’ll tackle any relational issue you have—from in-laws to the love languages. Need some encouragement? Don’t miss the October “Dear Gary” broadcast on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 24
When Sarah and Jeff said, “I do,” they had no idea the storms their marriage would face. Chronic illness, baggage from the past, a child with a neurological challenge, financial struggles and more. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Sarah and Jeff talk about how they were able to navigate those storms. If the waves are crashing on your marriage, join us for the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 17
What does it take to be a great dad? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and pastor and dad, Bryan Loritts gives the four gifts your child needs from his or her father. You’ll hear stories of not-so-perfect dads as well as those who overcome great obstacles to become fathers who made a difference. Don’t miss the encouragement for dads of all ages on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 10
If your husband is addicted to pornography, you won’t want to miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Rosie Makinney was in that exact situation and she decided she would fight for her marriage and fight for love. How do you do that, especially if your husband won’t admit his addiction? Don’t miss the help and hope for marriages affected by pornography. It’s coming up on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 3
If you’re an anxious parent, you won’t want to miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Dr. Erwin Lutzer wants to help you go from “anxious” to “praying.” If you have a prodigal child or grandchild with a hardened heart, how do you pray? And how do you avoid repetitious requests? Hear “A Pracital Guide for Praying Parents” on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 26
Dr. Gary Chapman is known for the 5 Love Languages. His passion is to connect couples and singles with that unique approach to relationships. And he’s not afraid to tackle real life struggles. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear never-before-asked questions about the love languages. The answers might help you. Hear the conversation on the September edition of Dear Gary—on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 19
He dreamed of climbing to the top of the biggest mountain in the world. She dreamed of starting a family and having a great marriage. On today's Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Captain Harold Earls and Rachel Earls tell their story of the mountain that stood between them. Could the differences between you and your spouse forge an unbreakable bond? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 12
Every year, millions of couples pledge their love before family and friends. Do they know what they’d getting into? On today's Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, veteran radio host and pastor Bob Lepine (luh PEEN) encourages husbands and wives to “love like you mean it.” Part of the struggle in today’s culture is that we don’t understand the meaning of the word “love.” Don’t miss the marriage encouragement on this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 5
If you’re somewhere in mid-life or beyond, you won’t want to miss this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Michelle Van Loon believes older Christians represent an untapped resource for the church. If you’re not content to simply coast spiritually, you’ll be encouraged by the conversation about “Becoming Sage.” See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 29
Getting hit by an 18-wheeler changed Robby’s life. Because of the accident, he became addicted to painkillers and that sent him on a dangerous spiral. On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Robby Gallaty tells his redemptive story and gives hope for anyone praying for a prodigal. Hear how God intervened in Robby’s life on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 22
Women today control more than 50% of the wealth in America. They want to steward their resources well, but many lack the confidence in the area of money management. On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Miriam Neff and Valerie Hogan team up to help empower women. Learn how to take charge of your finances. Don’t miss the encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 15
Many parents are considering the positive choice of homeschooling their children. But there are still doubts and fears that surface. On this best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, educator and speaker, Jamie Erickson discusses how to move past those doubts and fears and teach your children with confidence. Learn how to homeschool bravely, on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured Resource: Homeschool Bravely See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 8
Author and director of Family Life Blended, Ron Deal wants to help you build love together in your blended family. On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Ron talks about the unique challenges step-families encounter. You need more than just good intentions to overcome them. How do you build trust and become one? Don’t miss the encouragement for blended families on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 1
Kim Erickson's life changed forever on the day her three-year-old son died. On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Kim shows the step-by-step process she took to not only survive that ordeal, but begin to live again. Get practical and biblical help if you're going through a deep loss—or learn how to help someone else. Don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, July 25
When you experience loss and disappointment, it's easy to ask, "Why is God allowing this to happen?" On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you'll hear the story of authors and speakers Robert Wolgemuth and Nancy Demoss Wolgemuth. They say that no matter what circumstances you're going through, there's something bigger going on with your story. How do you embrace this mystery? Don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, July 18
Is it possible to have the home life you want with the people you love? On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Dr. Shannon Warden gives practical tools to help transform your home life. Renovating a relationship is a lot like fixing an old house. It takes a lot of “sweat equity,” which means hard work. But it’s worth it! Find some new tools to help your family on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, July 11
Your teenager wants a smart phone. Everybody has one. How do you respond? On a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, two guests help you navigate the questions and pitfalls of smart phone usage and your children. How do you deal with your fears of losing control? Could a smart phone actually improve your relationship? Hear the encouraging conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, July 4
If you want to create lasting memories with your grandchildren, don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Susan Alexander Yates will talk about creating a "Cousin Camp" that brings grandchildren together over the summer. She'll give practical tips on how to plan activities and spiritual lessons that your family will talk about for years to come. Hear more on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, June 27
Since the outbreak of the COVID-19, couples have been forced to spend more time together. For some, that has led to a deepening of the marriage. But for many, the home has become a battleground. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear five simple ways to strengthen your marriage…when you’re stuck at home together. Don’t miss the practical marriage help on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, June 20
If you feel like you're walking a tightrope as a father—juggling work and family responsibilities, don't miss the Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Former lead singer with Sanctus Real. Matt Hammit recognized the increasing conflict between his wife and children and his career pursuits. Hear about the difficult choices he made on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, June 13
Every day we make decisions about our lives. But instead of choosing what is best, we often gravitate toward what is easiest. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and educator, Dr. Deborah Gorton provides encouragement about facing your fears and pursuing your true purpose by "embracing uncomfortable." Learn more on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, June 6
One of the big conflicts in marriage is how to handle money. So says author and speaker, Shaunti Feldhahn. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, she'll describe the struggles and disagreements she and her husband had, as well as give game-changing insights about your relationship, your money and yourself. How to thrive in love and money, on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, May 30
Once a month the New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages takes questions and comments from his listener line. And on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear callers from around the country ask questions and give feedback that might help you in your relational struggles. Don’t miss the fun on the May Dear Gary broadcast—coming up the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, May 23
When life sends it's worst, marriages often suffer. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Gene and Carol Kent talk about the greatest crisis they faced in their marriage. If you and your spouse are under great stress because of some unforeseen circumstance, they believe you can come out on the other side more loving and committed. Find out how on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, May 16
Ask a man you know this question: “Who’s got your back?” The answer, many times, is, “No one.” On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and speaker David Smith talks about men making and keeping great relationships with other men. Why do so many men go at life alone? What can we learn from the friendships of Jesus? Don’t miss an important conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, May 9
Each person has five core needs. If you want to thrive, those needs must be met in healthy ways. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and educator, Dr. Kathy Koch will help you determine if your core needs are being met. And if they aren’t, she’ll help you develop an action plan. If you’re not thriving, don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, May 2
It’s time to reconsider our attitudes toward aging. So says author and speaker, Isabel Tom. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, she’ll describe her years of working and living with older adults and what they have to offer the younger generations. How do you teach people the value of wrinkles in a culture that worships youth? Don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Featured Resource: The Value of Wrinkles See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 25
You've heard that when you get to the end of your rope you need to a tie a knot and hang on, right? Well, if that's you, tune in to the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. On our April "Dear Gary" broadcast, you'll hear answers to some deep marriage and family struggles, and words of hope from the author of the NY Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages. Don't miss the questions and answers on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Resource: Holding onto Love After You've Lost a Baby: The Five Love Languages for Grieving Parents See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 18
Losing a child is among the most tragic experiences a parent can face. The crushing grief affects the marriage and family like nothing else. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Candy McVicar talks about her own journey through loss and how the principles in The Five Love Languages helped her and her family. If someone you know is grieving, don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Resource: Holding onto Love After You've Lost a Baby: The Five Love Languages for Grieving Parents See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 11
"When the person from whom I have a right to expect nothing gives me everything." That's a working definition of a three-letter Hebrew word that's found throughout the Bible. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, musician and author Michael Card reveals the mystery of hesed. How could one little word change the way you live? Find out on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, April 4
Getting hit by an 18-wheeler changed Robby's life. Because of the accident, he became addicted to painkillers and that sent him on a dangerous spiral. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Robby Gallaty tells his redemptive story and gives hope for anyone praying for a prodigal. Hear how God intervened in Robby's life on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 28
What do you do to get your husband to talk? How do you get a child to give you a second chance when you've made a mistake? You'll hear answers to those questions on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Plus, a spouse who has given up on the marriage. Hear responses from trusted pastor and author of the New York Times bestseller, the 5 Love Languages. Don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 21
He's the grandson of a world-famous marriage expert, and you'll hear him on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Author and speaker, Michael Gibson, will talk about lessons learned from his grandfather, Dr. Gary Smalley. His message is for singles and others struggling to let go of the fairytale and find "real life love." Don't miss the encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 14
Kim Erickson’s life changed forever on the day her three-year-old son died. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Kim shows the step-by-step process she took to not only survive that ordeal, but begin to live again. Get practical and biblical help if you’re going through a deep loss—or learn how to help someone else. Don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, March 7
A dare is a dare, right? Unless it's a double-dog—or triple-dog dare. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and speaker Jay Payleitner will dare you to open the door of faith. He asks, "What if Jesus really is who he says he is?" What difference might happen in your life and relationships if you took "The Jesus Dare?" Find out on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 29
You've heard that when you get to the end of your rope you need to a tie a knot and hang on, right? Well, if that's you, here's a better idea. Tune in to the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. On our February edition of "Dear Gary," you'll hear answers to some deep marriage and family struggles, and words of hope from the author of the NY Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages. Don't miss the questions and answers on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 22
If you feel like Easter Sunday sneaks up on you every year, don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Author and speaker, Asheritah Ciuciu believes with some preparation of our hearts, we can enter the season known as "Lent" and have it transform our perspective of Jesus. You can also lead your children to a deeper understanding of God's love. Find out how on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 15
Author and director of Family Life Blended, Ron Deal wants to help you build love together in your blended family. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Ron talks about the unique challenges step-families encounter. You need more than just good intentions to overcome them. How do you build trust and become one? Don't miss the encouragement for blended families on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 8
If you asked your spouse to rate your marriage from 1-10, what would he or she say? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Dave asked his wife Ann that question. Her response was, "I've lost my feelings for you." Hear what happened to them and the secret they learned that might turn your marriage around. Don't miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, February 1
"There is so much division in the country right now." Have you heard someone say that lately? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Brandon O'Brien talks about the things that divide us, unite us, and how to move forward in a presidential election year. Having lived as an outsider, he's heard, "You're not from around here, are you?" You'll hear why that's important on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 25
What would you say to a woman whose husband has said, “I’ve fallen out of love?” What would you say to a husband whose wife has cheated on him? Coming up on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, it’s our January Dear Gary edition as the New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages takes questions and comments from his listener line. Hear some honest struggles shared on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 18
Women today control more than 50% of the wealth in America. They want to steward their resources well, but many lack the confidence in the area of money management. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Miriam Neff and Valerie Hogan team up to help empower women. Learn how to take charge of your finances. Don’t miss the encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 11
Many parents are considering the positive choice of homeschooling their children. But there are still doubts and fears that surface. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, educator and speaker, Jamie Erickson discusses how to move past those doubts and fears and teach your children with confidence. Learn how to homeschool bravely, on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, January 4
Sarah Mae’s story reads like a novel. From an early age she suffered neglect and abuse. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear her story and the complicated journey she took to forgive her alcoholic mother. She made a promise to her mom that she would share the truth about their story. Don’t miss the conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 28
The questions are in, your messages have been received, and it’s time for answers on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Each month the New York Times bestselling author of The 5 Love Languages takes questions and comments from his listener line. And this week, it’s the last broadcast of 2019 featuring great questions about marriage struggles, the love languages and more. Don’t miss the December Dear Gary broadcast on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. 52 Uncommon Family Adventures See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 21
As we approach a new year, many couples want a fresh start to their marriage. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Dr. Tim Keller and his wife of 43 years, Kathy, talk about the meaning of marriage. Connecting on a soul-level each day in 2020 can draw you closer to God and each other. How do you begin to pray together if you’ve never done that? Hear a practical conversation about marriage on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 14
We live in a sex-saturated society. And yet, our culture has not understood the true beauty of physical intimacy in marriage. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, how to discover God’s design for romance, marriage and sexual intimacy from the Song of Solomon. Author Sharon Jaynes says sex is not something evil that marriage permits, it’s a gift from God that marriage protects. Don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, December 7
Many in today’s world feel like they start their day on empty and run on fumes. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, learn how to kickstart your soul every day. Author Asheritah Ciuciu believes it all begins in the morning by feeding your body and soul. She says it will change the way you view life and the struggles you face. Bible and Breakfast—don’t miss the conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 30
You’ve heard that when you get to the end of your rope you need to a tie a knot and hang on, right? Well, if that’s you, tune in to the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. On our November “Dear Gary” broadcast, you’ll hear answers to some deep marriage and family struggles, and words of hope the author of the NY Times bestseller, The Five Love Languages. Don’t miss the questions and answers on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 23
You’ve heard the story of the birth of Jesus since you were a child. But this year, take a closer look at the unlikely people caught up in his story. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author Daniel Darling shines a spotlight on the characters of Christmas. Get a fresh view of the miracle birth of Jesus by looking at this event through their eyes. Don’t miss the conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 16
As a parent, you’ve dreamed of having an empty nest. But when the last little bird flies, it can bring grief along with the joy. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and speaker Jill Savage says those conflicting feelings are normal. Marriage struggles you didn’t know were there many times surface. How do you handle all the changes? Don’t miss Jill Savage on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 9
When you experience loss and disappointment, it’s easy to ask, “Why is God allowing this to happen?” On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, you’ll hear the story of authors and speakers Robert Wolgemuth and Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth. They say that no matter what circumstances you’re going through, there’s something bigger going on with your story. How do you embrace this mystery? Don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, November 2
Many in today’s world feel isolated, lonely and disconnected. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author Leslie Verner talks about the power of hospitality to change lives. She says there are many people all around us who need an invitation. Seeing them is the first step in connecting to their hearts. Don’t miss a challenging and hopeful conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 26
This weekend, hear Dr. Gary Chapman take your questions about marriage, parenting and the love languages on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Each month he opens the listener line to deal with something going on in your life. You might hear a question and an answer that will guide you closer to someone you love. Don't miss the variety of questions that come from listeners around the country on October's Dear Gary—on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 19
Do you want to build a marriage now that your kids will thank you for later? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, a best-of broadcast featuring Dr. Crawford Loritts—he and his wife, Karen, have been married 45 years. How do you build a union together that will not only stand but also leave a legacy to the next generation and beyond? Don’t miss the hope and encouragement for your marriage on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 12
If you have a child with special needs, don’t miss the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Between the worry, visits to the doctor, appointments at school, and a thousand challenges for everyday life, you can be overwhelmed and exhausted. Jolene Philo has been there and she has help and hope for your special needs family. Hear the encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, October 5
If you’re a parent of a child with a disability, you won’t want to miss the encouragement on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. You’ll hear the story of Grace Anna Rogers who has struggled with her health from birth. But that hasn’t kept her from living fully and singing with all her heart. You’ll hear from her mother, Angela, and Grace Anna herself, on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 28
Dr. Gary Chapman is known for the 5 Love Languages. His passion is to connect couples and singles with the love of God. And he's not afraid to tackle real life struggles. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, questions about marriage difficulties, family conflict and a lot more. You might hear an answer to something you're going through. Hear the conversation on the September edition of Dear Gary—on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 21
Do you find yourself living more in the past and the future than right now? Do the regrets behind you hold you back? Do the hopes of tomorrow keep you waiting? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and professor emeritus at Moody Bible Institute, Dr. John Koessler helps you practice the present. Join us for the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 14
Most couples enter marriage with high expectations of happiness. Jonathan and Wynter Pitts struggled with that reality through their years together—and then the unthinkable happened. On this episode of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, hear their story and why the concept of being "emptied" is an encouraging picture of marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, September 7
Your teenager wants a smart phone. Everybody has one. How do you respond? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, two guests help you navigate the questions and pitfalls of smart phone usage and your children. How do you deal with your fears of losing control? Could a smart phone actually improve your relationship? Hear the encouraging conversation on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 31
When Clarence was a teenager, Pastor Gary walked onto a basketball court and began a relationship with him. Now, decades later, Dr. Clarence Shuler and Dr. Gary Chapman are helping a new generation of young men. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, hear a best-of conversation between these lifelong friends about Choosing Greatness. Don’t miss this special Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 24
The Kendrick brothers have thrilled movie-going audiences for years—and this weekend their sixth feature film, Overcomer, is being released. On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, director, actor and author, Alex Kendrick details the themes tackled in the film. How does he explain the reactions to War Room, Courageous and their other films? Don’t miss Alex Kendrick on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 17
You cannot change the world your daughter is growing up in, but you can prepare her for it. On a best-of, Building Relationships s with Dr. Gary Chapman, author and speaker Dannah Gresh identifies some of the lies the culture is telling your daughter. And she has the perfect antidote to those lies—the truth that comes from God’s Word. How do you communicate that effectively to help tween girls understand who they really are? Lies Girls Believe—on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 10
If you kick yourself for your anger problem, if you can’t believe you finished the whole half gallon of ice cream, don’t miss a best-of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. Author and speaker Drew Dyck says the Bible and brain science teach us a lot about self-control. Don’t miss a helpful conversation for sinners, quitters, and procrastinators—on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, August 3
Think of your workplace. Are you excited to go there and be part of a team growing together and reaching toward a common goal? Or do you feel overwhelmed by negativity and competition? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, a best-of broadcast with Dr. Paul White who will talk about what you can do to change your workplace. He believes organizations are empowered when people are encouraged. Don’t miss the practical advice on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, July 27
What does it take to make a strong marriage? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Ron and Jody hadn’t been married a year and their marriage was falling apart. Their struggles led to a discovery that marriage is like tying two pieces of string together. That knot has to be kept tight. They found seven choices that keep couples together. And you’ll hear about them on a best-of broadcast on Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Saturday, July 20
Do you find yourself chasing “something more?” Is there an unsatisfied longing you have deep in your heart? On the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, hear a best-of conversation with author R. York Moore. He says you were created to be part of a bigger story. How do you reframe your life so you can be all God wants you to be? His answer is, “Do Something Beautiful.” Find out what that means on the next Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
A Love Language Minute is a daily one-minute radio program. In a world where life is so busy that most people forget to care for their closest relationships, Gary Chapman is there to help individuals refocus and recalibrate.
Friday, May 7
The feeling of being "in love" may only give the illusion that you have an intimate relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, May 6
Knowing the 5 love languages will serve a newly married couple well. It will spark the relationship of an older couple as well! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, May 5
Falling in love may not be love at all. Love is an act of the will - not feelings. The "In love" feeling won't guarantee a happy marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, May 4
It's common to give up on a marriage when separated. Don't give up! Seek counsel, and commit to changing the behavior that let to your separation. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, May 3
When your emotional needs are not being met, it's often difficult to share that with your spouse. Share your needs with your spouse, and commit to meeting their needs. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, April 30
Too many people make marriage decisions while in a state of being "in love". That feeling won't last, and you might regret your earlier decisions. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, April 29
If you feel unloved in your marriage, start by working on how you could be a better spouse. You can't control your spouse's behavior, but you can control your own. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, April 28
What does it mean to "fall in love"? Feeling "in love" often begins with the emotional "tingles". But this obsession isn't the basis of a happy marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, April 27
How can you forgive an unfaithful spouse? If they are repentant, you can begin the process of forgiveness. Forgiveness is a choice - not a feeling. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, April 26
What do you do when you don't receive love from your spouse in your love language? Be honest and let them know that you need to be loved in your primary love language. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, April 23
How do you know when you're really in love? You'll know you're in love when you discover that love is a choice, not a feeling. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, April 22
Don't wait until your wife changes before you behave lovingly toward her. Love her whether she's loving toward you or not. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, April 21
You can't undo the past in your marriage relationship. Don't waste your time and energy on what "might have been". Focus on your relationship from this point forward. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, April 20
Differing communication styles will challenge a long-distance relationship. Learn how the 5 Love Languages apply to the way you and your spouse communicate, then begin to express yourself in their language. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, April 19
I express my love language through gift-giving, but I end up spending too much. Remember that it's not the amount you spend but the thought that counts. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, April 16
Holding your feelings inside can lead to separation. Expressing your thoughts and feelings with your spouse strengthens your relationship. Communication skills can be learned. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, April 15
A husband should love his wife as Christ loves the Church. Jesus loved us before we were lovable. Don't wait for your wife to meet your expectations before loving her. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, April 14
Is your attitude toward life positive or negative? A negative outlook on life diminishes the quality of life. It's up to us to choose to live with a positive attitude. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, April 13
Contrary to what you might think, the 5 Love Languages even apply to a narcissist! They apply to any personality type. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, April 12
The 'in love" feeling of love won't sustain a marriage relationship. Sacrificial love is the key to building a marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, April 9
Don't automatically blame yourself when your spouse leaves you. Speak truth into your life as directed in Psalm 15:2. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, April 8
If your spouse chooses to leave, don't chase after them. Adopt the approach that the father used with his prodigal son in Luke 15. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, April 7
During a marital separation, use that time to grow. Even the most difficult times can provide the opportunity to develop the qualities of Christ. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, April 6
Simply knowing and speaking your spouse's love language doesn't necessarily mean the two of you will be compatible. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, April 5
Is it possible to have all 5 love languages? Most likely not. Find creative ways to get your spouse to tell you what fills their love tank. Their response will help them discover what their primary love language is. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, April 2
Your attitude, whether negative or positive, will always be expressed in your words and behavior. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, April 1
Feeling "in-love" with the one you're dating shouldn't be the predominant sign in deciding whether or not to marry that person. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, March 31
Even in the worst possible marriage, we can choose to keep a positive attitude as described in Phil 4:6 by bringing our requests to God. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, March 30
Losing those "in-love" feelings often ends in a breakup. Knowing and speaking each other's love language during the dating period will help you better decide whether or not you should marry. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, March 29
Spouses with polar opposite personalities creates the potential for conflict. The question is, are you both mature enough to listen to each other in order to understand each other's point of view? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, March 26
Unemployment might provide the opportunity for couples to spend more time together and grow in their relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, March 25
Prayer has the greatest potential for changing relationships for the better. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, March 24
Attitude has to do with the way we choose to think about things. Negative thinking begets more negative thinking. A positive attitude is possible with the outside help from God. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, March 23
What if a married couple doesn't agree on whether or not to have children? It's important to discover the reasons why one spouse doesn't want children. Above all, pray! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, March 22
Adolescence is the age of reason. Teenagers begin to think more literally and logically. Parents need to avoid the argumentative conflicts that arise and let their children flex their intellectual muscles. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, March 19
Are you frustrated with your teenager? The strong pull toward independence often comes from the culture. Love can bridge the gap between the generational divide. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, March 18
The fact that more and more teenagers and young adults tend to stay at home longer gives parents more opportunity to influence their lives for good. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, March 17
One of the primary reasons why we find it so hard to forgive is due to our strong sense of justice. Remember that it, too, was costly for God to forgive us when he sacrificed His only Son. Forgive others as God has forgiven us. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, March 16
What do you do when you forgive someone but you remain deeply pained when you remember what they did? Start by reading and applying Hebrews 10:17. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, March 15
Dr. Gary Chapman says the greatest challenge married couples face today is Selfishness. The way to overcome that challenge is through sacrificial Love. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, March 12
What is the loving attitude in dealing with an unkind spouse? Choose to love them anyway. Always seek the well-being of your spouse, but hold them accountable for unacceptable behavior. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, March 11
How do you love your spouse when you feel rejected? As Christ loved the Church unconditionally, we, too, must love our spouse whether or not you think they deserve it. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, March 10
The social bond in a marriage relationship is vital; but spouses should encourage each other to connect socially with others as well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, March 9
Spending quality time with your spouse is always important. But the type of quality time should include time spent in meaningful conversation that leads to feeling accepted by your spouse. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, March 8
My wife and I are reunited, but my wife doesn't seem to want to work at repairing that broken trust. Good counseling will help in dealing with the failures and pain of the past. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, March 5
We are called upon to encourage each other in our pursuit for significance. Our self-worth is rooted in who we are - children of God. That makes us extremely significant! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, March 4
The love of a husband for his wife should be expressed by Giving. Jesus modeled that love when He "... so loved the world that He GAVE." See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, March 3
In marriage, our most fundamental need is security. This comes from a deep assurance that your spouse is committed to you! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, March 2
What does a full love tank feel like? A full love tank gives you a strong sense of satisfaction, calmness, and security. This comes about when you sense your spouse genuinely cares about your well-being. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, March 1
Can childhood abuse change your Love Language? Not really; but with professional counseling, you'll be able to better express your own love language. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, February 26
A husband's role in the family is more than just being the breadwinner. Meeting your family's need for love is vitally important as well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, February 25
How far would you go to love your wife, even if she rejects you? Reading the first three chapters of the book of Hosea would be a great place to start. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, February 24
If a couple doesn't understand the needs of their spouse, it's likely they won't make an effort to discover each other's needs. What steps are you taking to meet the needs of your spouse? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, February 23
What do you do when your husband's love language is physical touch but he is currently deployed? Work on creative ways to give an emotional touch while apart. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, February 22
This generation seems to give up on relationships too easily instead of working through issues in a mature and thoughtful way. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, February 19
When you're away at work, your spouse can't relate to your job. Describe the events of your day to your spouse so they can better understand. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, February 18
When your spouse isn't loving toward you, decide that you're going to love them, regardless. Don't wait for them to change. Reach out to them right where they are. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, February 17
Not communicating with your spouse may be interpreted as you not caring about them. Asking questions about their day demonstrates that you truly care. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, February 16
Differing views on money issues is the biggest area of conflict in a marriage. The purpose of dating is to discover your differences. That's the time to decide if the two of you will ever be on the same page. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, February 15
You want to express your love for your husband but don't know how. Encourage him to take the Love Language profile test. You'll learn his love language and be able to engage him on that level. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, February 12
Telling your wife that your trip went "fine" isn't enough. Husbands, give your wife all the details! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, February 11
There's a Biblical mandate that husbands should love their wife first. Don't wait for your spouse to change. Be the initiator of love in the same way that Christ loved the Church. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, February 10
A spouse may not want to express their deepest feelings to you. It's vital to understand that communication is an act of the will. Communicate, even if it doesn't come naturally to you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, February 9
Apologizing to your spouse may not seem like enough to them. You might consider adding an element of repentance to your apology as well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, February 8
When your spouse isn't responding to your expressions of love in their own love language, understand that their love language may have a different dialect. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, February 5
God's declaration that "the two shall become one" doesn't apply only to the physical. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, February 4
Don't wait for your spouse to be the one to demonstrate love to you. Instead, follow Christ's example of loving the Church. HE is the one who demonstrated love to us first. So should we toward our spouse. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, February 3
Deep inside many couples exists a love tank that's empty. Filling that tank with meaningful and genuine love for your spouse will be the key that opens the door to a satisfying marriage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, February 2
What do you do with a spouse who has ADD? Never lash out in anger and frustration. That only leads to more conflict. Ask your spouse if there's a better way for you to approach them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, February 1
When your marriage feels distant and cold, consider reading "The Four Seasons of Marriage. In it, you'll discover that empathetic listening will develop a marriage that looks like Spring. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, January 29
Ask your spouse if they feel loved. If not, ask "What can I do to make you feel loved?". In the process, you may discover their primary love language. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, January 28
Emotional love often seems elusive, but love can be learned and applied. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, January 27
A Christian counselor trained in the area of mental health may have a positive impact on your spouse with mental disorders. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, January 26
All the material blessings in life can't replace the need for a spouse to be loved. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, January 25
Experiencing physical abuse in a past relationship often makes trusting the person in your current relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, January 22
Expressing your love to your spouse is crucial. Have them take the love language test, and discover the love language on which they score the highest. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, January 21
Your child's love tank is waiting to be filled. Problems with your child's behavior is symptomatic of their love tank being empty. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, January 20
If your spouse doesn't speak your love language of gift-giving, continue to speak theirlove language. A gentle reminder to them of what your love language is might be helpful. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, January 19
We use the word "love" in so many different ways. Chose the love word that focuses on the kind of love that's essential to your emotional health. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, January 18
Speaking your spouse's love language without their reciprocation might indicate that a lingering hurt may be the cause. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, January 15
Your spouse says they love you but are not “in love” with you. It means they don’t have those euphoric feelings they once had earlier in your relationship. But true love is best developed through acts of love, and the emotions will follow. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, January 14
Hold your spouse accountable for their transgressions, but examine your own failures and confess them as well. Mutual respect for each other during this period is vital. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, January 13
You can’t make someone speak your love language, but you can remind them of what yours is. This little nudge will help your spouse to learn and speak your love language. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, January 12
The loneliness you feel after your spouse has left you is understandable; but beginning to date again immediately after the separation isn’t the answer. Your well-being is best served by seeking connections with long-time trusted friends. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, January 11
It’s quite possible that your spouse doesn’t know what your love language is. Reading The 5 Love Languagestogether might open your spouse’s eyes to what your love language is. This will help them express their love is a way that is better received. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, January 8
We can’t choose or change our love language, but we change the way we express our love language in a manner that is better received. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, January 7
Leaving your spouse for someone else often comes from losing the feelingof love. Yielding to your “in love” emotions will never sustain a sound relationship. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, January 6
Most people feel their marital separation is their spouse’s fault. The Bible instructs us to remove the log from our own eye first. Focus on your own culpability as well. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, January 5
Seeking reconciliation doesn’t require that we hide our emotions. But instead of responding in anger, express how the transgression makes you feel. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, January 4
Married couples come into parenting untrained. Reading The Five Love Languages of Childrenis a great place to start! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, January 1
God ordained that man should work beforethe fall. Work is not a curse but a blessing. All our work should be for our satisfaction and to God’s glory. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, December 31
Jesus said, “A man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions”. Our satisfaction doesn’t come in the form of financial success. Relationships are our real assets. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, December 30
What might help your spouse to speak your love language? Make a request of your spouse that would require their response to be in your love language. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, December 29
Unconditional love is love that seeks the best for another person, regardless of their response. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, December 28
Any addiction, especially pornography, is an addiction that’s built on the lie that you have the power to conquer it yourself. Overcoming the addiction requires Divine help. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Friday, December 25
The shepherds in the Christmas story can teach us how to be merry at Christmas time. They returned to their fields “glorifying and praising God”. Find time today to raise your spirit in praise to God! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Thursday, December 24
Scripture tells us that our lives are a spectacle to others – a visual manifestation of God’s work in us. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Wednesday, December 23
The Christmas story is the story of God reaching down to us to bring us together with Himself. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Tuesday, December 22
Spiritual intimacy in a marriage is usually the most difficult practice, but also the most important. Walking with God and sharing that walk with your spouse leads to lasting intimacy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Monday, December 21
If your loved one is away during the holidays, make sure to reach out and touch them through a call, text or email – letting them know you’re thinking of them. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
