If we want our children to become responsible adults, we must teach them when they are young. Requiring a child to ‘make his bed’ or vacuum her floor are first steps in developing responsibility. And what of good manners? Corporate America is now hiring ‘etiquette trainers’ because employees don’t know the simply rules of courtesy. If as parents we believe that ‘please’ and ‘thank you,’ are better than ‘gimmie’ and ‘yuck,’ then we have rules that teach such manners. Rules must be clearly explained to children. Unspoken rules are unfair rules. In most cases, parents are older than children. So, they have the responsibility to make rules that will protect and guide the child.