Q: My husband spends more time playing video games than he spends with me. I’m tired of it and I need to know if there’s anything I can do.
Gary: It sounds to me like your love language is Quality Time and your husband is not giving it to you. I would first suggest that you make sure you know his love language and that you speak it on a regular basis. Do not ignore him because you feel ignored; doing so will accomplish nothing. Love stimulates love; if you speak his language you can then make requests for him to speak yours. He’ll be far more likely to respond positively because he feels your love.