Q: Gary. My husband and I recently separated and he is unwilling to listen to my reasoning. Is there hope for our marriage?
Gary Chapman: Until your husband is remarried, there is hope for your marriage. Don’t ever give up until he marries someone else. Now having said that, I recognize that you cannot control your husband. There’s nothing you can do that is going to make him return. You or friends can put helpful books in his hands—like my book Hope for the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed which has helped many people come to a different perspective on their marriage. If they respond and come back to reinvest in the marriage, then I would encourage you to get counseling. Don’t just move back together.
Yes, your marriage can be restored. Trust God to work in his heart and allow him be free because God also allows him to be free.