Q&A: Is It Possible To Have More Than One Primary Love Language?

A: The short answer is “yes.” I’m often asked that. People will say, “It seems to me that two of those languages are just about equal for me.” And I say, “Fine, we’ll call you bilingual.” But most people have a primary love language, a secondary love language and then the other three fall in line after that. But I do think that for some people a couple of these will be just about equal. And what that means is both of those will speak very deeply to you emotionally. So if your spouse or friend is sharing either one of those languages, it’s going to be very meaningful to you. But keep in mind that most people have a primary love language and the key is you have to give heavy doses of the primary then you can sprinkle in the other four to get extra credit.