Q: How do I get my husband to read the 5LL?
A: I suggest you start speaking what you think is his primary love language, speak it regularly and then ask him for something that would be your love lanaugage. And because he’s feeling your love, he’ll probably respond to your request. Then, every week or so, request something of him that would speak your language. As he responds, you begin to feel love. So, you’re teaching him your love languages though he doesn’t even understand the concept. After all, what’s important is having a full love tank. He doesn’t have to read the book if he can learn to speak your language.