Q: I do all of the house work while my husband just sits around. How can I motivate him to help?
A: You didn’t say whether he’s working a full-time job outside the home, but if you feel like you’re not being treated fairly then you need to communicate that to him in a loving way…not a nagging way. Say, “here’s the way I feel…” Then tell him what you feel and give him a chance to respond.
Most men genuinely love their wives. I don’t mean all men but most men really want to have a good marriage and if they get information on how they can make the marriage better then they’re willing to do that.