A: Set time limits. Giver her thirty minutes a night to talk about whatever she wants to talk about. But let her know that when the 30 minutes are over, the conversation is over. Since she knows that you’ll be back tomorrow night for another 30 minutes, she’ll stop. She’s getting what she wants–quality conversations with you–and you’re getting what you want–time limits so that you can go do other things that evening. This has been the key for many couples on how to resolve the differences of opinion over how long we talk and how deeply we talk.