“I just don’t understand it,” she said. “Before marriage, I felt so close to Rob. We shared everything. He was so kind, tender and understanding but now all of that is gone. I just don’t know him anymore. He is not the man I married.”
What happened to the intimacy between this husband and wife? The answer is as old as creation itself.
In the beginning, Adam and Eve were both naked and felt no shame—total intimacy. However, they were soon sewing fig leaves together to cover themselves. What happened? They disobeyed God’s commands. Sin always separates. So if you have lost your intimacy ask yourself: Which of God’s commands have I broken? I think you’ll find more than one.