“We don’t ever do anything together anymore. He’s always gone. Our communication is almost non-existent.” That was her perspective but he had a different story. He said, “If we could get our sex life straightened out, everything else would be fine.” What they didn’t realize is that they were both asking for the same thing—intimacy.
For him intimacy meant sex. For her it meant quality time. With a little counseling and a change of attitude, this couple found what they were looking for. They discovered how to speak each other’s love language. What about you? If you long for more intimacy, wouldn’t it be worth reading a book or talking with a counselor?