“Honor your father and your mother” is one of the Ten Commandments. It is not rescinded when we get married. We are told to ‘leave’ our parents but that does not mean that we stop honoring them. Our parents gave us life. We are deeply indebted to them. Even if they were not the best of parents, we would not be here without them.
One way we honor parents is by keeping in touch—by phone, visits, or e-mails. Letting them know that we still love them and want them to be a part of our lives. Failure to communicate with parents is saying in effect, “I no longer care.” Honor means that we speak with kindness and respect. We look for things we can do for them, remembering what they have done for us.