Being a loving leader requires that you put your wife at the top of your priority list.
Christ is your example. He loved the church and gave himself for it. The church is his priority. He shed his blood for the church. And now, as our ascended Savior, he prays for you. What a model!
So, the husband who takes the Bible seriously will make his wife his number one priority. Throughout the day ask yourself the question: “What can I do for her that will enhance her life?” Pray for her daily. Encourage her worthy pursuits. Commend her for her accomplishments.
As Christ showers us with daily blessings, so you as loving leader should shower your wife with actions and words which say, “I love you”. And she? She will follow your leadership.