Question: I am very much in love with my boyfriend and we have a wonderful relationship. However, some of my friends have concerns about things that don’t bother me. They would actually like to see us break up. What should I do?
Answer: Listen to your friends. I don’t mean that you should necessarily break up. What I mean is that you need to listen to what your friends are saying. It is not uncommon to have blind-spots. Your friends see things you don’t see. You need to find out what their concerns are and then address the issues. If you don’t, you are likely to wake up married and then realize that your friends were right.
Don’t assume that just because you are in love, you should get married. It is highly possible to fall in love with someone you should not marry.