It is amazing that God chooses to use people to reach people. Jesus said to His early followers, “I will make you fishers of men.” He used that analogy because they were fisherman. They became the people who laid the foundation of the early church. We follow their example. We reach out loving people in the name of Jesus.
I’m sure the apostles did not sit around talking about the five love languages, but I can assure you that they spoke all five languages. Read the New Testament, and you will hear them speaking words of affirmation, giving gifts, performing acts of service, spending quality time, and extending physical touch. God uses us to express His love to others.