Have you participated in one of Dr. Chapman’s seminars or read one of his books and want to share how his message has influenced your life? If so, share your story with others of how learning your Love Language has impacted your relationship.
Choose One:
Justin
My wife and I are complete opposites personality wise–I am a strong, outgoing, adventurous, uninhibited Assembly of God pentecostal. She is a quiet, reserved, conservative, peace-loving, United Methodist type. We have been married for 4 years as of Aug 2010 and had the pleasure of learning our love languages early on in our relationships because I took the initiative to read the material.
I cannot express what a blessing it has been. I am words of affirmation, she is quality time so we have found a few activities that appeal to both. The greatest one being MadLibs just before we go to bed at night!! I get the words that are funny, she gets the quality time of attention for her providing them, we have a blast, and go to bed feeling the stresses of the day gone and the intimacy of a close love as we go to sleep, and wake up refreshed!
I am also a chaplian sharing this material with my soldiers and seeing the tremendous difference it makes in the married and single soldier retreats!
Nicole
My husband and I hadn’t even been married for a year and we hit a big speed bump! We had just bought our first house, got two Labrador puppies and were just making it financially. All of this put so much strain on our marriage we were battling to keep things together. I didn’t even think we’d make it to our first anniversary! Then I remembered I got your book from my Aunt for my bachelorette party. I started reading it and sharing the stories with my husband as I went along. It has helped us so much! It is like we are newlyweds again! Thank you so much!!!! We just celebrated our first anniversary and things could not be better!!! I can’t thank you enough!!
Brittney
My husband and I have been married for two years this June. We started dating when I was a sophomore in high school. We dated for the last two and half years of high for me. Then shortly after graduation, we got married. The first year was great, and our little girl was born the same year. I felt like I was doing everything I could to show him that I loved him, but one day I asked him what was one thing that I did that irritated him the most and he said it was me telling him that I loved him to much. That was devastating to hear because I have always loved hearing that so I thought he did too. So then I decided to get the Five Love Languages book, just to see what I could do to make me better. I read the book and figured out that his love language was Physical Touch, and all along I had done what was best for me. When I tried his love language everything began to change. It really changed our relationship. Thank you, it has truly made our marriage stronger.
Brittany
My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We started dating my sophmore year of highschool. We fell in love. We dated for a year and a half then got married, now we have 2 beautiful children. We began to argue more than talk, and fight more than get along by a long shot. We had a family friend give us your book as a gift, I started reading it and fell in love with the book instantly. I realized that the things I was doing was not showing him the love he needed. He needed words of affirmation and he needed it often right now because of our relationship going down. We are extremely close and we are both trying and it help our relationship on so many different levels. We are greatful to have been given this book and realized these Languages of Love before it was to late. Thank you so much Gary and Thank you lord
Thank you!
Brittany and Zachary
Valeria
I want you you to know that I appreciate your ministry and the 5 love languages of teenagers. I am going through a rough period of adjustment with my teenager, at this time. I will use your assessment to better the relationship that I have with my child. I just wanted to let you know that it is a blessing to be able to see things from the perspective of the other person. Thank you for opening my eyes to a different way of loving and communicating with my children. May God continue to bless your ministry.