Q: What do you suggest to do if your boyfriend is unmotivated to speak your love language?
Gary: I think it’s probably time to get out of the relationship. People are typically at their best when they are dating. If you’re dating someone who knows your love language but refuses to speak it, it should indicate to you that your partner is selfish. He is into himself but not into loving you. If that’s what dating him is like, imagine what being married to him is like. If upon breaking up with him, he radically changes, maybe give him another chance.